Dear my Kung-Fu babe: When you were born , we took your birthday information to be judged by a fortune teller. This activity is very famous in Taiwan traditional culture. She said , \"The man will be leisurely and carefree in his old age , but not in his earlier years.\" Actually I thought it again and again. YES! Your future is controlled by yourself. Every life has its roses and thorns. When you suffered, intelligently and creatively find the solution for it. Even it spends time , even very long or makes you dusty. Just like you do Kung-Fu as a fighter. It is worth it! When you go through it , you will get more than you expect. Dad